Advice
for the boyz!
©
2002 - Girlfriend
advice - written by 101
Christian Singles
Dating & Chat - Do not copy
So..
are you trying to find a Christian girlfriend or do you already
have one? If you're in the second category count yourself very fortunate
and praise the Lord!!! Why?.. because, as a man the greatest thing
outside salvation you could have is a beautiful wife that loves
and supports you. Through her you will experience how giving is
more fulfilling than recieving. A woman has instincts that can guide
and instruct that give you insights that you would'nt have yourself!
She has qualities that you need so treat her with care and respect
and in doing so she will feel cherished and respond in amazing ways.
When a woman feels cherished she is radiant and a blessing to the
people around her.
about her - understand your
differences!
Yes
it's true - women are marginally more intelligent than men on average!
However they attach more importance to communicating and helping
each other than being innovative(women generally take less risks).
For them, contentment is more likely to be found in quality of relationships
rather than success and accomplishment. what
motivates a woman?
A woman is motivated when she feels cherished,
protected
and tended to. The highest compliment you can pay a woman is your
undivided attention-make time to give her this attention!
how
a woman deals with stress
When she's stressed, sharing the problem alone
can make her feel better. Unlike you, she doesn't always feel
the need to build large objects or conquer the universe!
are
women illogical?
No, they have different needs and therefore think
differently. You prefer discussing one thing at a time and finding
a solution, but she may move from one subject to another simply
to get things off her chest. Be a good listener and she'll love
you for it!
men
beware
- It's a woman's instinct to nurture and improve.
And this means you! Unlike your average male she accepts advice
from others and expects you to accept hers! Unwittingly she dents
your pride but really only wants to help!
about
you!
It's
probably a good idea to know yourself as well as your partner!
Here's a few male traits for you - any familiar?
objects
and things!
It's embarrassing to admit but it appears that
men are more interested in objects and things rather than
people and feelings! As I write my next door neighbour walks round
his new car lovingly - a new toy?
Is acquiring stuff and feeling good about it bad? - it must have
its place - after all we do need things. One thing's
for sure, there's a child inside every man!
need help - me?
Ever noticed how asking for help makes you nervous?
- and you only ask when you really need it. You also resist correction
like the plague. It's a male hang-up! Apparently real men have
no problem listening to other people's views and love to be enlightened!
You
may notice on the other hand, you love being called on for advice
- what an honour!
what we do wrong - written by a women!
Everything? - no the biggest complaint women have
about men is that they don't listen. Men love to listen with the
minimal amount of brain power necessary to be able to repeat back
what they just heard - heaven forbid you're asked to repeat it!
This won't do for a woman. She wants your full attention, and
because no-one can be fully attentive all the time, it makes sense
to make time when you are prepared to give her 100%!
and finally . . . 4 ways to upset a female - or your
money back!
1) Dismiss the things
she says like she couldn't possibly know anything!
2)
Offer her quick solutions to her problems knowing she wants empathy!
3)
Listen with only 5% of your listening power whilst doing something
else!
4) Tell her to "calm down" when she is upset!
Good Luck!:)
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